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Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
I think the same things that are important in a vanilla relationship are important in a BDSM relationship:
Trust
Communication
Respect
Openness
Honesty
I'm not sure there's a lot of difference in this regard. However, I do think that depending on your kinky play, the potential for physical injury is increased, if the relationship is lacking in any of these areas -- especially communication and trust.
It's pretty simple. A healthy relationship means healthy kink.
Anything else is just dangerous.
And not in that tingly, dark and exciting, good way.
I think the same things that are important in a vanilla relationship are important in a BDSM relationship:
Trust
Communication
Respect
Openness
Honesty
I'm not sure there's a lot of difference in this regard. However, I do think that depending on your kinky play, the potential for physical injury is increased, if the relationship is lacking in any of these areas -- especially communication and trust.
It's pretty simple. A healthy relationship means healthy kink.
Anything else is just dangerous.
And not in that tingly, dark and exciting, good way.
Be safe.
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